Counseling on Cape Cod and by Phone Everywhere
My Counseling and Life Coaching Philosophy:
When the Heart is Starved in Childhood,
We Will Find Ways to Fill It As Adults.
If our childhood path has been unsure, difficult or hurtful in some ways; when others have dealt wounds to us,
This hidden corner of our psyche has to carry on enormous load of our time,
we sooner or later erect building blocks in the personality that helps us survive and adopt to our world.
It is these building blocks, however,
that eventually form a thick wall around OUR FEELING LIFE.
especially if we don’t acknowledge these hurts and moreover, try to cover our pain with accomplishments –
which most of us do. –
By the time most of us have experienced the first few initiations of childhood, not only have we rejected our feeling world,
but there’s a cloak around our brilliance, our CAPACITY FOR ALIVENESS.
Every Person I Have Worked With
- over the years has something in the heart that has been neglected, overlooked, forgotten, covered over, both negative and positive.
But the power of the heart, when it is kept dormant, is never growth-productive.
- When we are not allowed to love and rage and feel free as children, to express our innate wild, a crippling results,
and these feeling-states become reversed.
- When love is wounded, we can feel hatred, rejection, abandonment and mistrust and
can carry a fear of intimacy that goes back to the original wound.
- By divorcing our feelings we can cause depression, panic attacks, melancholy, addictive processes and stomach symptoms.
- When we put on hold our sadness, anger, hurts and needs, an even bigger problem emerges; it also adamantly withholds joy.
Each Client Is Unique, each healing opportunity is sacred.
- The core of the healing is that we are, right now, regardless of our beliefs and backgrounds, one with spirit.
- I am very conscious of the spiritual life, which we are all part of.
- I believe we are a soul, now in human life, but we will go back to the place the soul came from.
- and personal or family counseling can help you realize where you are in your life,
how to feel more satisfied and happy with what you have and how to achieve the goals you want to reach.
When you feel lost, defeated by life, forgotten by your friends, neglected by amily,
without a job or with a dissatisfying job, struggling with daily living and desperate for help,
you need to reconnect with your true self and rediscover who you really are.
Gestalt Counseling & Life Coaching
Lis B. Jensen
$80. for a one hour counseling session.
Sliding Scale rate accepted.
Pay By: PayPal (Credit Card), Check or Cash.